The House of My Mother
Books | Biography & Autobiography / Personal Memoirs
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Shari Franke
INSTANT #1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER “Heart-wrenchingly personal…dizzying.” —Rolling Stone From eldest daughter Shari Franke, the shocking true story behind the viral 8 Passengers family vlog—now the subject of a new Hulu docuseries—and the hidden abuse she suffered at the hands of her mother, and how, in the face of unimaginable pain, she found freedom and healing.Shari Franke’s childhood was a constant battle for survival. Her mother, Ruby Franke, enforced a severe moral code while maintaining a façade of a picture-perfect family for their wildly popular YouTube channel 8 Passengers, which documented the day-to-day life of raising six children for a staggering 2.5 million subscribers. But a darker truth lurked beneath the surface—Ruby’s wholesome online persona masked a more tyrannical parenting style than anyone could have imagined.As the family’s YouTube notoriety grew, so too did Ruby’s delusions of righteousness. Fueled by the sadistic influence of relationship coach Jodi Hildebrandt, together they implemented an inhumane and merciless disciplinary regime. Ruby and Jodi were arrested in Utah in 2023 on multiple charges of aggravated child abuse. On that fateful day, Shari shared a photo online of a police car outside their home. Her caption had one word: “Finally.”For the first time, Shari will reveal the disturbing truth behind 8 Passengers and her family’s devastating involvement with Jodi Hildebrandt’s cultish life coaching program, “ConneXions.” No stone is left unturned as Shari exposes the perils of influencer culture and shares for the first time her battle for truth and survival in the face of her mother’s cruelty.
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Author
Shari Franke
Pages
320
Publisher
Simon and Schuster
Published Date
2025-01-07
ISBN
166806541X 9781668065419
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"Sad, true story of abuse and trauma in a Utah family. Like a lot of the “celebrity” or “influencer” books, I had zero idea who any of these people were, but they were apparently famous YouTubers. The book is in the same vein as If You Tell, although not as insane. But it’s also very vague on details, which the author says is on purpose. It does take away from the story and your ability to understand the depths of what is happening."
"The way she tells her story is amazing. The strength that took is absolutely awesome. You definitely a role model for me showing me how even in the darkest of times with the right dedication you can work for it to be better! 100% recommend you all to read this book and hear her story!!!"
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Abagail Diaz
"I have never read a book this fast. I was a returning fan of the family channel and never knew what was going on (even with the hidden abuse on camera). This book is an eye opener to me about many things (not just the abuse itself); faith, courage, and the wrong of family vlogging. I recommend this book 100%"
"1 Shari is an incredible writer. <p> 2 I hope her mother and Jodi rot in jail. <p> 3 I hope her siblings heal and live very happy, loving lives. <p> 4 Jodi and Ruby were ******* each other. <p> Ruby...Ruby, Ruby, Ruby. You were both women of god... <p><img src="https://media0.giphy.com/media/v1.Y2lkPTc5MGI3NjExczVoNDZkNmhxb3hlaGkwd2Y0cW05a3FqZWkwdGxnMnk2MHMxbjF0ZCZlcD12MV9pbnRlcm5hbF9naWZfYnlfaWQmY3Q9Zw/Fck6m7UVbUQhecDalo/giphy.gif"/> <p> You didn't have to lock your youngest children in a basement. You just had to get a divorce. <p> <img src="https://media4.giphy.com/media/v1.Y2lkPTc5MGI3NjExbTRtZ3RpOHB5ZWl5MjhpbWZtMjMyeG5jcDllbHU4dzRpbnJ4ZjZpYSZlcD12MV9pbnRlcm5hbF9naWZfYnlfaWQmY3Q9Zw/52FmnokM0kfcgFb5fq/giphy.gif"/> <p> Anyways, I am so glad your daughter was brave enough to speak out, but also I am so glad she was able to expose every single pathetic little lie of yours. I hope someone sends you letters in jail to let you know we are LAUGHING OUT LOUD, and praying for your kids, something you were not capable of doing yourself. <p> <img src="https://media2.giphy.com/media/v1.Y2lkPTc5MGI3NjExOXV5dGprZjNtZGlueHR1cmx4cWFxOHlqZDdjd3Nic2FkODg2eDNlMyZlcD12MV9pbnRlcm5hbF9naWZfYnlfaWQmY3Q9Zw/26ybuI7f7uI6Y7Uqc/giphy.gif"/> <p> PS: If what I said made no sense to you, google 8 PASSENGERS. The Utah Mormon Mommy vlogger who was arrested in 2023 for child abuse. She also ruined her children's life after she involved herself with a cult leader, con-woman named Jodi. I am unbelievably impressed at Shari's ability to rise from the ashes, to heal as a woman from what was done to her as a child, to still speak of her mother with kindness but HONESTY. And I am so proud of her for the work she has been doing to defend children in social media spaces. Children can't consent to being filmed, they shouldn't be your little money making machine. <p> If you liked I am Glad My Mother Died, you will also love this one."